"For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have died. For this we declare to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will by no means precede those who have died. For the Lord himself, with a cry of command, with the archangel’s call and with the sound of God’s trumpet, will descend from heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first." (1 Thessalonians 4:14-16)
The long and the short of it is that we are tethered to Jesus.
This is both our call to cross-shaped discipleship and our hope of life beyond the grip of death. We have been bound to Jesus, so wherever he goes, we go. Whatever Jesus has endured, we will endure--and whatever Jesus been brought through, we will be brought through, too.
In so many words, that's the point Paul is making here in this passage that many of us heard this past Sunday in worship. The apostle is writing to folks in his congregation in Thessalonica who were worried that their loved ones who had died would miss out on Jesus' coming in glory. That might seem strange to our ears, since we tend to immediately assume that our loved ones who have died are already in the blessed rest of being in the presence of God. But in Paul's day, the Christians in Thessalonica were all convinced that Jesus would come back at any moment, any day now--so if Great Aunt Matilda died last month, they worried, would she miss out on that great and glorious day when Jesus came to reign on earth? Did she--and all the others who had died in faith--miss out, in other words?
Well, Paul offers an answer here--and it's not concocted out of wishful thinking or empty cliches about heaven needing another angel or some terrible attempt to make it sound like God deliberately willed Aunt Matilda's death on such-and-such a day as part of a cosmic plan. Paul pins his hopes--and all of us, really--onto Jesus. Paul's answer is that since Jesus has died and risen, he will bring with him all those who have died and are bound to him. What he has gone through, they will go through as well--and for those who have already died, they will be pulled from death into life at his coming in glory. In other words, Great Aunt Matilda will not miss out on the great day of Jesus' coming to reign: she will have one of the spots at the front of the parade!
Now, I realize in our own day, our questions about death, dying, resurrection and Jesus' return may be different from those Paul's readers were asking. For us, it has been two millennia since Jesus' earthly ministry, and I suspect that at some point, we all just assumed that God was not going to leave out all those who had died in faith before Jesus' coming again. But we do have real questions about how we can have hope right now in a world full of death--both the specter of our own death and the painful reality of others' deaths, and the heartache of being separated from them in between. I learned long ago not to play the game of "Whose-Pain-Is-Worse-Than-Whose?" among our various kinds of loss, grief, and heartache--they all feel like a wound that will not heal, and each in its own way. And while I know that no single paragraph from the pen of an apostle (nor a blog post devotional from a decidedly lesser pastor) can take away those heartaches while we are living with them, I do think that Paul's words give us a way to frame this experience of death in such a way that we can bear the reality of grief and loss in our present-lives and keep putting one foot in front of the other. And as I said at the beginning, it all comes back to the central claim that we are tethered to Jesus. Wherever he goes, we go--even if the length of the cord between us is such that sometimes it feels like he is in one place and we haven't arrived yet.
For us in the midst of our day-to-day lives, part of what that means is that we are bound to end up in situations of suffering--because he went through suffering, too. Jesus constantly and deliberately put himself in places where he would encounter the sick and the dying, the outcast and the ignored, the condemned and the lowly. And he always called his followers to be in those places with them--sharing the sufferings and sorrows of others while bringing relief and healing to them, but also sometimes just bearing their grief. Jesus goes deliberately to the cemetery where his friend Lazarus has been laid in a tomb, and he takes all of Mary and Martha's angriest questions and fiercest accusations--and his disciples come along for that journey, too. He goes among those harassed by evil spirits, those ostracized by their diagnoses or their means of making money, and those deemed untouchable for whatever reason--and he commissions his followers to do the same. He takes up a cross, bearing the rejection of the Respectable Religious Establishment and the cruelty of the Politically Powerful, and he explicitly calls us to carry a cross in his footsteps as well. That's part of what it looks like to be tethered to Jesus--if we go where he goes, then we will go into the place of suffering, too. That's where Jesus chose to go first.
So let's put away once and for all any notion that the Christian life is only a matter of good feelings and positive thinking. Let's disabuse ourselves of the self-help version of the gospel that says Jesus is just here to help our kids get on the honor roll, our family life look like a 1950s sitcom, or our careers climb the corporate ladder ever higher. Jesus has not called us to and easier and easier life--he has called us to go with him. And that will also always mean going downward, into the role of serving with the basin and the towel rather than ascending to the positions of power. It will mean going outward to the margins, among the people pushed out of polite circles, rather than making ourselves the center of attention. It will mean going on the way of the cross rather than the way of comfort--all because we are bound to Christ.
But the flipside is also true, and that's a word we cannot forget, either. Because the same Jesus who went to the cross also rose from the dead, then we know that we will also be pulled from death's despair, pain, loneliness, and heartache into resurrection life. Because Jesus leads us onward--even yanking us when we are nothing but dead weight--we will find ourselves drawn into his risen presence. Because each of us--along with Saint Paul, dearly departed Great Aunt Matilda, and all the members of the First Church of Thessalonica--have been joined to Christ, death is not the end of the line but a point along the way that leads beyond into resurrection life. Jesus has gone all the way through, and we are tied up with him--we will be pulled into new life as well. That does not negate the pain or heartache of grief in this life, but it does insist that such grief is not the end of the story. And if in the meantime our lives are marked with sorrow and suffering, that may not be a sign that Jesus' grip on us is slacking--it may mean that he is very tightly holding onto us, and pulling us through what he always told us was in store. Ain't no way to follow Jesus that doesn't involve a cross--but there also ain't no way to follow Jesus that doesn't also come busting out of a borrowed grave eventually, too.
For wherever you are today, that's the truth: we are tethered to Jesus, and so we will find our lives going in all the places he has gone. If you are in the valley of the shadow of death today, here is good news: Jesus has tied us to himself almost like Odysseus to the mast of the ship, and he will not let us go. If we were hoping for a secret detour on this Christian journey that went around the pain and heartache stuff, my sincere apologies for whoever it was that sold you that load of malarkey. Whatever comes in this day or this season of life, and wherever we go, we are bound to Jesus. So we entrust ourselves today to the cord that pulls us forward, sometimes through death, and eventually into life.
Lord Jesus, hold onto us and assure us that your love will not let us go--even when it takes us through the way of suffering and loss.






