We Are Children--October 29, 2026
"For there is no distinction, since all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God; they are now justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a sacrifice of atonement by his blood, effective through faith. He did this to demonstrate his righteousness, because in his divine forbearance he had passed over the sins previously committed; it was to demonstrate at the present time his own righteousness, so that he is righteous and he justifies the one who has the faith of Jesus." (Romans 3:22b-26)
Every day, in countless households around the world, children wake up hungry, and parents set a breakfast in front of them, or pack a school lunch for them, or both. And every day, none of those children are presented with a bill from Mom and Dad for their meals.
Every day, in countless families wherever you might roam, children find they have clothes they can wear for the day, which have been first bought (or made) and also washed and dried (and maybe even folded) by the adults in the house who make sure they are clothed appropriately for whatever the day's weather will be. Is there a charge for these services presented to the children? No, dear reader, there is not.
Why is it, in a culture like ours, where goods and services are typically exchanged only where there is a monetary transaction, that all of this food and clothing and cooking and washing and folding is being doled out without a price, and without earning? Well, it just seems obvious, doesn't it? Families do not operate on an economy of buying and selling--they are operated according to grace. You get food as a child, not because you have the ability to pay for it, but simply because you are a child in the family. You get clothing, not because you bought it yourself, but because people who love you have provided it for you. And all you can do is trust the promise of the adults in the house who show (and hopefully also say) to you that they love you... and that you belong. All that you need is provided to you, free of charge--which is to say, as a gift.
Now, for any of us who grew up in such a household or who have lived as a parent in such a household, all of this is quite obvious and doesn't need explaining. A family isn't a business, and the kitchen table is not a restaurant. You receive what you need simply because you belong in the family--because you are claimed as a child who belongs here--and there is no assumption or expectation that you will ever pay your parents back (or even be able to do so).
Similarly, it is obvious that the reason the parents in this sort of household are willing to keep providing for their children is love. They aren't calculating and conniving about how they'll make a profit one day when the kids grow up and pay them back. They don't think about some sort of transactional advantage that will mean a nice return on their investment. They just know, "You are my children, and therefore we will care for you as a gift." Whatever costs there are to be paid--the grocery bill, the costs of the clothes, the time and energy in the cooking, cleaning, and laundering, and all the rest--are a part of what it looks like to love the children. Costs are paid, but not by little ones. The adults give up their own otherwise disposable income, time, sweat, and attention, because that is the nature of love.
So far, none of this should sound odd at all--like I say, this is the seemingly natural order of things in many of the houses on your street and in your town and around the world. The ruckus is when we dare to suggest that this is also how God runs the universe. The scandalous claim of the Gospel, as Paul gives it to us here in these words many of us heard this past Sunday, is that God's economy for all of us is built around the giving of gifts and not the selling of products. Since we can neither earn nor buy our way into a right relationship with God, God just gives it to us for free--as Paul says, "as a gift." That's because our relationship with God is not one between a Divine Vendor and us as mortal customers, but rather between a parent and children. The relationship is unconditional from God's vantage point, the same way parents will provide for their kids all they need to be functioning members of the family as free gifts.
Now, of course, in human families, eventually children grow up. And along the way, they take on new responsibilities (ideally) or they learn the consequences of not being responsible (like if the "dog eats their homework" or they leave dirty clothes piled up on their floor). And to be sure, there often does come a point in human families where the tables turn and the roles reverse, and the grown children take on caregiving for aging parents. Yes, all of that is true. But it was never why the parents did the giving in the first place. Moms and dads don't conspire at night in their bedrooms thinking about how much they will make their kids pay them back for all the years of food, transportation, clothing, and worry spent on them. So while the comparison between God and human parents has limits, the point Paul is making is clear: what we cannot earn anyway has been given to us as a gift by God. And God ends up absorbing the costs for loving us, like moms and dads pay the costs for stocking the pantry and running the washer and dryer. In our relationship with God, of course, we're not talking about sliding a debit card through the reader at the Kroger or Aldi checkout line; we are talking about the cross. God has taken on the costs of loving us, the costs of bearing with our sin, and the costs of our breaking relationship, and absorbed all that loss into God's own being through Christ. But for us, it has all been a gift--that's just how things word in a family. And of course that's the promise: we have been incorporated into the found family of God, which has embraced us in all of our messiness and all of our need, and gives to us grace upon grace as sons and daughters in the house.
In a sense, all of that is easy enough to understand, but it might well take a lifetime for it to sink in and for us to realize it is really true. Today, that's our work: to let this good news seep down into our bones and to let it shape our perspective and change our responses to the world, knowing that we have been given as a gift what we could never earn or buy... because we are not employees or customers of God. We are children, and we are beloved.
Lord Jesus, help us today to believe what you have done for us, and to live our lives in trust of your goodness.






