What Matters Most--June 10, 2026
While [Jesus] was saying these things to them, suddenly a leader came in and knelt before him, saying, “My daughter has just died, but come and lay your hand on her, and she will live.” And Jesus got up and followed him, with his disciples. Then suddenly a woman who had been suffering from a flow of blood for twelve years came up behind him and touched the fringe of his cloak, for she was saying to herself, “If I only touch his cloak, I will be made well.” Jesus turned, and seeing her he said, “Take heart, daughter; your faith has made you well.” And the woman was made well from that moment. When Jesus came to the leader’s house and saw the flute players and the crowd making a commotion, he said, “Go away, for the girl is not dead but sleeping.” And they laughed at him. But when the crowd had been put outside, he went in and took her by the hand, and the girl got up. And the report of this spread through all of that district. (Matthew 9:18-26)
Jesus is less interested in keeping himself untouched by disease or "uncleanness" than he is with restoring us to life.
Jesus is less worried about becoming "contaminated" himself by the social stigma attached to others than he is with freeing us from that stigma.
Jesus is less concerned, in other words, with preserving his own status as "pure" in the eyes of others than he is with healing people who have been deemed "impure."
That says something truly powerful about the character of this Jesus whom we follow. For all the ways we get hung up on religious notions of withdrawing from "the world" and its sinfulness, Jesus himself is much more invested in remaining in touch with the world, despite our dis-ease, precisely in order to heal it.
I think we sometimes get the direction wrong, honestly, in that regard. Quite often, Respectable Religious Folks seem to think that godliness looks like withdrawing from everything--from being affected (or infected!) by "bad influences," from being seen with "those people" (whoever that is at the time), or from society and the world in general. Sometimes people assume that being pious means being a recluse or a wet blanket. Sometimes we assume that being close to God requires distance from everybody else in the world. But that's not what Jesus shows us here. He deliberately places himself in situations where he is reachable--literally--to the people who need him, even when they are the ones who carry the aura of "untouchability" in their bodies.
This is one of those underemphasized details in this passage from Matthew, which many of us heard this past Sunday. Both the woman who has been bleeding for twelve years and the dead daughter of the community leader (seemingly the same one named Jairus in Mark's Gospel telling) bring with them the specter of "uncleanness" because of their conditions. The purity laws of the Torah were clear: anyone with a flow of blood, as well as anything that was dead, were all to be considered unclean and not to be touched, lest the uncleanness spread. And, to be sure, in an ancient culture without antiseptics, antibiotics, or even running water for basic hygiene, the best prevention of mass epidemics of many kinds of disease might well have been to limit contact with bodily fluids or dead bodies. That absolutely made sense on a societal level--the trouble was, it left individuals who got sick or became unclean with few options sometimes. If you were temporarily "unclean," you could be restored back to community life--friends, family, work, and relationships--once sufficient time had passed to make it clear you were not unclean. Maybe the sickness got better, the wound healed over, the bleeding stopped, etc. But if you had a chronic condition--like, say, bleeding for twelve years!--you were ostracized indefinitely and likely regarded as an outcast. And of course, if you touched something that was unclean, you also became unclean yourself.
Nevertheless, in both parts of this episode, Jesus comes into contact with the "unclean" and doesn't flinch. He doesn't run away in disgust, scold the woman who touched him from the crowd, or refuse to help the deceased girl in the name of maintaining purity. When the woman reaches to touch Jesus for healing, he doesn't accuse her of "contaminating" him or spreading her "uncleanness," but rather makes it clear that no offense has taken place and that she is safe. "Take heart, daughter; your faith has made you well." If Jesus had been more concerned with preserving his own purity, he would have been upset or scandalized at the notion that his "cleanness" had been contaminated. Instead, he acts like the only thing that matters is this woman's well-being. Similarly, when he finally comes face to face with the body of the dead young girl, Jesus takes her by the hand to revive her. That's a choice on Jesus' part, of course. We all know plenty of stories in which Jesus heals someone with only a word and no contact at all. He even raises Lazarus back from the dead after four days in the grave simply by praying and calling out to the dead man. So it's not that Jesus had to touch this dead body in order to resuscitate her. That would have avoided the whole worry of "contamination" by uncleanness. But instead, Jesus seems almost deliberate in choosing the tenderness of touch, like he is waking her from a nap with the gentlest of gestures. And once again, that is because from Jesus' perspective, what matters is this young girl's well-being, rather than his own cultivated sense of "cleanness."
Taking this story seriously is going to do something to our priorities, as well. Instead of needing to project the appearance that we are un-touched by the world, hermetically sealed in a bubble of self-righteousness, we will be more interested in being right with the folks who are looked down on or dismissed as "unclean" and "unworthy." Instead of defining our holiness in terms of who we run away from and who we pull our hands back from touching, we will see holiness in Jesus' terms--by the ways we reach out in love especially to those who have been held at arm's length by others. And instead of worrying about becoming tainted or infected by associating with the "wrong kinds of people," we will follow Jesus' example and deliberately remain reachable to the people around us, regardless of their story.
For Jesus, the important thing--the well-being of others--is always clear. If we let stories like these do their work on us, too, we'll find ourselves rearranging our values in light of that kind of love, too.
May it be so.
Lord Jesus, realign our hearts with your priority on restoring life for all people rather than keeping ourselves distant from the world you love.






