"Owe no one anything, except to love one another, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, 'You shall not commit adultery; you shall not murder; you shall not steal; you shall not covet,' and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself'.” (Romans 13:8-9)
It really is all about love.
Maybe that seems obvious, given these words from Paul's letter to the Romans, which many of us heard this past Sunday in worship, but let's be clear about it. The apostle says (and he is echoing Jesus on this point, as well) that the whole of ancient Israel's laws and commandments are really about loving our neighbors, which turns out to be the concrete form of loving God. Like former Episcopal Presiding Bishop Michael Curry would often say, "If it's not about love, it's not about God." That's really a huge claim.
After all, there are all sorts of other things people get hung up on in religious circles, aren't there? Should we sing all the verses of the hymns on Sunday? What color are the vestments: green, blue, red, or white? Which translation of the Bible are we reading out of? Is there a guitar and a screen or an organ and a hymnal? Then let's zoom out from Sunday services to things like the color of the church carpet or the latest complaint about the church newsletter. Or we argue over whether Christians can dance, get tattoos, or drink alcohol. We debate about who can or cannot be a leader in the church and what their families can look like. We disagree about which political party we should vote for, and we can be terribly mean in the comments section on social media, too. Quite often, too, these days, Christians are more often known for angling for political power and influence, justifying whatever will give them more leverage, and condemning people who don't fit in their mold. There are a lot of things, in other words, that we spend time and energy on that sure don't seem to be about love.
So there is something helpful and clarifying about hearing it straight from the apostle's pen, so to speak, that our whole lives really are meant to be about love--and love as a verb, rather than a merely emotional state. We are called to act in ways that do good for those around us, knowing that "neighbor" is not a geographic category limited to people who live on my street or in my town, but anyone whom God sends across my path. These words of Paul's have a way helping us to see why other rules and commandments are there in the first place--not as a list of arbitrary hoops to jump through in order to win God's approval, but as concrete practices embodying love. The reason we do not kill is that we are called to love our neighbor, which would preclude taking their lives. The reason we are taught not to cheat on our spouses is that is clearly a failure to love them faithfully. The reason we commit not to stealing from others is that theft harms the person from whom we would steal, and love does no harm to a neighbor. Love, in other words, is not first and foremost about feeling a certain way toward someone, but about acting in ways that seek their well-being.
And yeah, Paul's point is that this kind of love is really what God has intended for human beings all along: that we would live with one another in ways that lift each other up, work for the common good, and seek the interests of others. That's what we are made for, and that's the life we are still invited into. And for all the ways we sometimes overcomplicate things, it really is just that simple.
Now, of course, "simple" is not the same as "easy." Nobody is claiming that it is always (or even often) easy to love our neighbors, or that we get it right on a regular basis. But that doesn't mean the directions are unclear. If we really did have to juggle the commandment to love alongside rules about the color of the carpet and the proper number of candles to light and appropriate dress code and... and... and... and so on, we might say that it is just plain impossible to keep all the expectations straight. But if Paul is right (and let's grant him that, shall we?) and all of God's commandments really are about expressing love for neighbors, then at least we know what we are aiming for. It's all about love, and it always has been. There is something beautifully freeing about that realization. God isn't looking to make things complicated in order to judge us based on how well we handle a challenge. God has only ever intended for us to live in ways that are shaped by love--in our words and our actions, our thoughts and our choices--because love is God's own character as well.
What might we do differently in this day if we take it seriously that the whole Christian life has always been about love? What things would we stop fussing over, and what things might we care more about? What things would no longer be priorities for us, and what might become all the more urgent?
Now... can we stop talking about these questions as hypothetical "what-if" scenarios, and simply hear what Paul says to us? The one who loves another has fulfilled the law. Yep. That will give us clarity.
Let us love.
Lord Jesus, enable us to see and live clearly with your kind of love as our vision for life.






