Beyond the Performances--September 29, 2026
[Jesus said:] “What do you think? A man had two sons; he went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work in the vineyard today.’ He answered, ‘I will not,’ but later he changed his mind and went. The father went to the second and said the same, and he answered, ‘I go, sir,’ but he did not go. Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first...." (Matthew 21:28-31a)
So here's the thing: Jesus is just not interested in performative piety. He never has been, and he still isn't today.
That much comes through loud and clear from these verse that many of us heard this past Sunday in worship. Whether it's the folks who make a big to-do out of praying in public, to the cars plastered with religious bumper stickers (that then don't align with the character of the people who drive in those cars), to the impulse to "virtue signal" with the right "Christian" posts on social media, to talking in church jargon without living in ways that reflect God's love, Jesus is just not interested in a show where we say all the right words, but don't actually live in line with God's heart with our actions.
Of course, a lot of Jesus' teaching and commentary is directed to the folks who posture themselves as Spiritual Experts and Members of the Respectable Religious People's Guild. He sees through the hypocrisy of the people in his own day who make a point of going out to the street corners to pray in big loud displays so that they can be seen, or who get melodramatic about their practice of fasting, or who make big donations so that they'll be recognized for their generosity and get their names engraved on monuments and such. And he regularly criticizes the people who like to say they are committed to doing God's will, but whose actions don't really seem to align with what actually matters to God. Jesus just has no use for that sort of play-acting (which is really what the word "hypocrite" originally meant, as it turns out).
You have to guess that Jesus still sees through all of our modern-day religious performances, too. Sometimes it's framed as "We Christians need to reclaim the public square and pray to take back our dominance," while folks make a big deal of being seen praying in various public places. Sometimes it's dressing up a political party's agenda in religious language to make it sound devout--and to imply that people on the other side of the aisle can't really love God by virtue of the fact that they are members of the wrong party. Sometimes it's just making a show of wearing faith-branded jewelry, clothes, or accessories as a way of trying to look pious. We keep inventing new ways of doing the same old song-and-dance, but Jesus was never really a fan of any version of it in the first place.
That's the gist of this short little parable, I think--or at least, it is a part of its meaning. (We'll look at more sides of it tomorrow with the verses that follow.) Jesus points out that if one has to choose between saying-the-right-words and actually doing-the-right-actions, between putting on a performance and authentically doing God's will, it's always better to get the actions right rather than putting on a show. Saying the right words is empty if it's not backed up with actually doing what we have said. So if we are going to publicly say we care about doing God's will, but then instead we try and baptize our same old selfish "Me-and-My-Group-First" nonsense, Jesus is sure to tell us, "No thanks--not interested." But if we realize that we've been turned the wrong direction and finally decide we are ready to let God's way of self-giving love become our way, then we've got something. Hence his story about two sons, one of whom says all the right words but doesn't ever get around to actually helping Dad out in the vineyard, and the other of whom at first rejects his father's request but later actually goes and does the farm chores. If you have to make a call about which one of these sons has actually done the father's will, it's clearly the one who actually goes, regardless of whether he said the right words at the start. Jesus simply dares us to take that seriously in our own lives, too.
Now, let me also be clear about what is not being said by this parable. This is not about who gets "in" to heaven or who is kicked "out" of God's family based on poor performance. After all, the metaphor Jesus has chosen in this story is about a father with two sons--and you cannot lose your belonging in a family, no matter how useless you are. If the other story Jesus tells about a man with two sons (you know, the one where the younger runs off with his share of the inheritance and comes home after wasting it all, only to find the arms of his father wrapping him up in love) assures us that you cannot lose your son-ship for actively bad behavior, then surely one cannot lose your place in the family for doing nothing, like the son in this story who says he will work but then does not. This is not a veiled threat from Jesus that if we don't pull our weight he will cast us out into the pit of hell. This is not a theological thesis teaching that one is saved by their good works. Rather it is Jesus' way of saying, well, that if you actually care about doing God's will, he is not interested in our just paying lip-service. Both the son who goes to work in the vineyard and the son who says he will but stays home still belong in the family--but only one of them has actually lived in accordance with the will of their father. And when you love someone--as presumably children and parents love one another--you would think you would want to do the things that bring them joy. You cannot lose your belonging in the family, but you can make choices that either do or do not align with the priorities of the parents. And apparently, in both the fictional family of Jesus' story and the household of God, the Father would rather we live out God's kind of love, generosity, and goodness instead of just putting on a loud show of our piety in the public square. It may be that we have been turned the wrong way for a long time, but right now we are given the chance to turn a new way, beyond the performances, to actually practice God's kind of mercy, kindness, and peaceableness (what we sometimes call "the fruit of the Spirit").
Today, if you and I see places in our own lives where we have just been mouthing the "right" words but not acting in light of God's character, we have the chance to begin again--not because we are trying to earn our way into (or back into) a club, but because we want people to be able to recognize the family resemblance with the God who has already claimed us as children.
Lord God, move us today from empty words and shows of religiosity to authentic love in our words and actions.






