Tired of the Same Old Game--February 13, 2026
"When I came to you, brothers and sisters, I did not come proclaiming the testimony of God to you with superior speech or wisdom. For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. And I came to you in weakness and in fear and in much trembling. My speech and my proclamation were made not with persuasive words of wisdom but with a demonstration of the Spirit and of power, so that your faith might rest not on human wisdom but on the power of God." (1 Corinthians 2:1-5)
So many of the groups, clubs, teams, organizations, and associations out there require the need to impress somebody else, either to get in... or to stay in. You pledge at a fraternity or sorority and then have to prove your dedication by going through all the stunts and harassment inflicted on would-be members. You apply for the new job by putting your best accomplishments on paper--and learning how to make yourself look more desirable as a candidate. You make the team by scoring higher, running faster, or shooting better than the one next to you in line. And every candidate for public office certainly seems to feel the need to puff up their resumes and inflate their record in order to get a few more votes in the hopes of winning. You don't get to belong in many groups these days without getting practice in selling yourself and promoting yourself as a "winner."
Add to that the way social media practically demands that we all project a polished version of ourselves for others to see... and possibly envy. We post about the foods we have made (especially the success stories), the fancy restaurants we have gone to, the retouched photos of our best looks, and the achievements of our families, all creating the impression of a "greatest-hits-only" version of our lives, rather than the real mix of beautiful and broken, manageable and messy, fantastic and failure that we really experience. And again, it's not that there's a lone master villain out there making us do all this--it's just how the platform of social media works. We are constantly being pressured to present ourselves, both in real life and on screens, as "winners" rather than "losers." That's how we know we will be acceptable to other people... at least that's what we tell ourselves.
And then there is the beautifully strange witness of the New Testament church, which made a point of not being like all those other kinds of groups, associations, and tribes. These words from First Corinthians, which many of us heard in worship this past Sunday, give us another glimpse of how the apostle Paul put that strangeness into practice. He's writing to this fractured congregation in Corinth, after having been their founding pastor and the one who had first shared the good news of Jesus with many of them, and he's reminding them that they don't have to go through the old routine of one-upping each other. They don't have to brag about their superiority over one another, nor do they need to try and pretend their are superior to the people around them in the world where they live and work. They don't have to project some fake version of themselves that makes them look like unmitigated successes, and they don't have to try to "wow" anybody. The community of Jesus is different. For people who are tired of that same old game, that is good news.
Here's why the community of Jesus--the church--is different (or at least why it is supposed to be different). For one, Jesus himself. Not only did Jesus not create a community built on impressing or posturing, but he himself knew what it was like to be looked down on as an utter failure and a loser. He went from assembling a circle of anybodies and nobodies (including some pretty strongly despised folks like tax collectors, foreigners, and people with contagious and stigmatized diseases) to dying a shameful death on the kind of cross that was reserved for the most despicable and contemptible criminals. The world's "Big Deals" looked at the track record of Jesus and said, "He's a criminal and a loser who surrounded himself with other losers--and that makes him an even bigger loser in our eyes!" The apostle Paul looks at the same evidence and says, "This is how you know God is the One orchestrating it all."
Paul reminds the Christians in Corinth that when he first came to them, he didn't try to impress them with big bloviating talk or pompous self-aggrandizement from a podium. He didn't try to rebrand Jesus as a "tough and strong winner" rather than a crucified criminal in order to make him more appealing. "I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified," Paul says. And on top of that, Paul himself didn't try to impress his listeners to sell them on the gospel, but by just being his own vulnerable self. "I came to you in weakness and in fear and in much trembling." This was not the Homecoming Queen and Starting Quarterback inviting the elite and popular kids to join their social clique--this was an unimpressive out-of-town nobody telling people about a homeless rabbi who had been eliminated by the empire. In other words, it wasn't a message that sounded like a sales-pitch for success; it sounded like a God who was so committed to gathering the ones labeled "nobodies" that God was willing to be one of those "nobodies" as well in the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus. That kind of God made room for people who didn't have it all together. That kind of God didn't weed out the undesirables. That kind of God didn't need to brag--and therefore, neither do we.
This is one of the things that makes the Christian community so countercultural, honestly. We are so accustomed to self-important figures boasting about their supposed "greatness" and thinking that's the way to market the gospel, too: "Try Jesus, and he'll make you great!" or "Believe in Jesus, and you, too, can be successful like him!" All of that completely misses the point to Paul. He's not interested in turning the church into one more exclusive club where elites compete to earn a limited number of spots or have to constantly one-up each other in order to keep their place. For Paul, his own coming to Corinth in weakness and smallness was not a random happening or a flaw in his strategy--it was a way of showing the people in Corinth that Jesus' kind of community really is different. And then when he told them about Jesus as the One who went to a cross, he made it clear that the Gospel wasn't just more of the same old game. If the center of our story was someone dismissed by the Big Deals as a loser and a failure, then there is room for us when that's how we have been labeled, too. If the One whom we confess as Lord created a community of "anybodies" and "nobodies," then we don't have to waste our energy projecting the image that we're "Somebodies" who are more important than the next person. That's the kind of new and beautiful community into which we have been called.
And it starts now.
Lord Jesus, enable us to be ourselves and to know you have accepted us as we are already--and let that be our witness to others.






